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Afraid

Are You Afraid of Success?

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There’s an organization out to stop your progress. It performs acts of sabotage covertly on your path to success to stop you from ever making it to your promised land. This group is called, FEAR.They are the reason you find it so hard to start a business, plan an event, write a book, or start the thing God has put in your heart to create. My friend and author, Paul Wilson, Jr., defines fear as thoughts or feelings that create a mental prison of anxiety & apprehension, preventing positive forward progress.

In order to combat this worthy opponent you first have to understand how FEAR operates. The group infiltrates your thoughts and tells you you’re too busy, you don’t have the right equipment, or it’s too hard to accomplish. Then they take over your eyes and when you look into the vision God wants to give you all you see are giants in the land. Lastly they monitor your hands and they make sure that you never reach or grasp the tools God already has for you to keep you idle.

But, there is a secret to defeating this black ops organization. It’s rooted in American’s favorite past-time, the game of baseball. What FEAR would have you to do is not even step up to the plate and take a swing at bat. FEAR wants to make sure that you forfeit the game even before the game starts. FEAR will put so much pressure on you to make a home-run that you’ll stare at the bat long before you even pick it up. What you have to realize is that the game is not won with one swing and one swing only . . . it’s won in innings!

Here are 5 sure fire ways to defeat FEAR, inning by inning, score home-runs, and win the big game;

1. Get to know your Umpire – God is the umpire of every game. He officiates the game, He calls the fouls, He’ll make sure you’ll have everything you need to win the game. I say it all the time, but it’s true, if God gave you the vision then He’ll provide you with everything you need to build it. Get to know Him and He’ll make sure you understand how to use the tools He provides.

2. Break the Game Down – Of course you want to win the game, but what’s your strategy for the 3rd, 4th, and 5th innings? If you’re going to start consulting, what’s your strategy for marketing, what’s your process for turning prospects into clients, and how are you going to generate leads? Don’t get so overwhelmed with the idea that you never start to work it. Take it a step at a time and break it down into “bite-sized” pieces instead of trying to swallow chunks at a time.

3. Create a Game Plan – no one ever went to war without a plan. Period. You don’t have to create the world’s most thorough and in-depth business plan; but you need to have an idea of where you want to go and how to get there.

4. Ask your teammates for help – Baseball isn’t won by the hands of one person, it’s a team sport so get together a team of advisers and ask for feedback on your business plan. When I started my first business which was a video game tournament company, I had just graduated high school. So, I went back to my favorite teachers and asked them to be on my advisers board and they gave me a wealth of advice and support for my business.

5. Hit the Ball! – You have to start somewhere, just hit the ball already. Don’t worry about making a home-run on your first hit. Let’s get to first base, make adjustments once we’re there, and figure out how to make it to second after that. It doesn’t matter if you go to the library to research whatever it is that you want to start, read up on blogs that pertain to your industry, or go to seminars and learn something new. Do something! Remember, fouling out is better than striking out!

Bonus: Write down 2 Timothy 1:7“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

So, the next time you start thinking that your dream is to big to accomplish, remember the game of baseball. Don’t just stare at the bat . . . pick it up and do something with it! So, what are you afraid of? What part of your business appears to big to make it a reality? I’ll tell you mine: I want to make big budget Christian movies (rivaling Hollywood!). For the longest time I thought it was impossible, but now I find myself networking with producers, starting scripts, and other things to make this dream a reality. I’m not there yet, but at least I’ve stepped up to the plate.

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About The Author

Rod Kirby

Rod Kirby helps entrepreneurs, small business owners, and organizations take advantage of social media marketing and new media through his company, Kirby Enterprises. Follow Rod on Twitter here.
  • latarahamying

    WOW! Thank you for this awesome post. Often times it is so hard for us to admit that we are scared but the courage to move forward starts when you have the courage to admit your fear.

    Yes, there are times when I have been scared of success. Most recently God has given me a part of the Plan that I did not think I was prepared for. Then I remember all the years of training I had with my pasts jobs and my years of work at my former church. So I am putting it all to good use now.

    The organization of FEAR will not be victorious in my life :)

  • http://www.homesprosperity.blogspot.com steveborgman

    Rod, thanks for a great post. The key is being able to break things down, have a good game plan, and to execute consistently. This is easier said than done. But I have too often limited myself. Like you said, you dreamed, and look at what is coming to pass! Let me know when your new movie release is coming out: I want to be among the first to see it :)

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  • http://twitter.com/pwilsonjr Paul Wilson Jr

    Rod, great post. Fear is often the silent killer of our dreams, because it works from the inside out. Sometimes we don't even realize the we have given into the temptation to allow circumstances to negatively influence choices that require decisiveness or courage.

    Keep encouraging people to not allow fear or anything else to prevent them from accomplishing great achievements.

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    “Fear is often the silent killer of our dreams, because it works from the inside out.” That's awesome Paul! I love that. Thank you for YOUR encouragement and awesome comment!

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  • http://bradleyaharmon.com Brad Harmon

    Rod,

    Awesome analogy! This is such a great way to explain it. How many times do we forfeit the game without ever stepping up to the plate?

    There's a saying in sports used by sportscasters all the time, “and that's why we play the game.” It's inevitably said after every upset. On paper, a team had no chance, but somehow they still pulled off the upset. It happens almost every weekend in sports, and we are still just as surprised every time it happens.

    Just hit the ball already. I love it!

    Brad

    P.S. Your bonus verse of 2 Timothy 1:7 is one of my favorite verses.

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    Thanks, Brad, It's really sad when people “strike out” before they ever step up to the plate. But, I believe God always wants us to hit home-runs no matter how afraid we are to step up. That's why He gives us so many opportunities to play in the game!

  • http://twitter.com/krenee76 Kiesha

    I love it when people use engaging analogies – I do feel a bit intimidated by my challenges at times, so to combat that, I just tell myself to think Big, but start Small – everyday I take small steps to establish my consulting business. It's a slow process, but at least it's in progress. Sorry, I didn't mean to go Jesse Jackson on you… :)