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work and life balance

Need a little balance in your life?

As I stated in Monday’s post, my life has changed significantly since I’ve been in a new relationship and things have changed on my job. I asked God, “How do I find the right balance of time to spend in my relationship, with family, friends, and my business?”

His response to me?

—————— Spend time with me and I’ll show you —————————-

That blew my mind.

For months I had been so wrapped up in my own agenda, head-over-heels in my new relationship, and working constantly that I had not spent as much time with the Lord as I should have. Sometimes, as Christians, we can get caught up in just living  life that we forget the one who brought us life in the first place.

Last Friday I went to Creflo Dollar’s 2010 Change Experience Convention and it changed my life! Creflo spoke on how we should honor the Lord with our time and our tithes (Read why tithing is a part of my proven secret to business success here). You see, if we honor the Lord (which means to let His word weigh heavy on our hearts in every area of our life) then we’re in position to be honored (blessed!). It was in that moment that I realized that I had not honored God with my time, instead, I put everything else before Him.

Remember, Matthew 6 and 33 (King James Version)? It reads,

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

If you’re married with a family, a single mother, a corporate over-achiever, a small business owner, or a combination of all the above, put God first and He’ll create the balance you’ll need to succeed.

How do we put God first and honor Him with our time?

Get into Your Bible

I’ll admit that I’m not the most dedicated Bible reader. But, when I get into it . . . I get in to it! The Bible is God’s love letter to us, His living Word, and contains everything we need to succeed in life and business. Open it up and read what He says about you and every situation you encounter.

Pray and Fast

You’ll see a lot of these next tips include prayer. That’s because, it’s the gateway to communication and communion with God. When you pray and fast (disregard certain foods and liquids for a specific time period) you make your spirit more sensitive to hearing from the Lord. This opens up blessings for your life, family, and business in ways that you could not have gotten otherwise.

Pray and Speak the Word

After you pray, find a couple of scriptures that pertain to the areas of your life that you want God to prosper, and speak them out loud. Doing so enables God to move on your behalf and perform for you in ways you can’t imagine or think. Can’t find time to manage your family and your business (which is growing fast)? Apply the Word and watch God give you the supplies, help, and resources you need to make it work!

Pray and Write

Writing is an awesome way to receive instructions from the Lord. I’ve got tons of journals with business ideas, strategies, and other things that have come to me. Journaling is a great tool that will help you archive the wisdom, knowledge, or understanding God drops in your spirit.

Read Inspirational Books

I just finished reading Creflo Dollar’s 8 Steps to Create the Life You Want: The Anatomy of a Successful Life (Faith Words) [affiliate link] and now, I’m looking for my next book. Reading is a great way to spend time with God because He allows the wisdom that He’s given others to minister to you. Put down the fiction, the murder mystery, or the sleazy love novel for a bit and you’ll see awesome results in your life!

Set aside Worship Time

Listening to music is a great way to spend time with God because He ministers to us through song as well. Put on your favorite gospel or inspirational song and just meditate on where you want God to take you in life. I promise you there’s nothing more liberating than to just worship and love on God freely like this.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed with family duties, running your business, working your job, or all the above – honor the Lord and He’ll honor you. This simply means that He’ll bless you to handle it all by bringing in needed help and supplies or give you tactics and strategies to see it through. If you’re looking for practical steps to maximizing your time, go back and read 6 Ways to Maximize Your Time and Get More Done. However, this article lays the foundation for success that goes beyond your own strength and capabilities. What are your thoughts? Share them below.

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About The Author

Rod Kirby

Rod Kirby helps entrepreneurs, small business owners, and organizations take advantage of social media marketing and new media through his company, Kirby Enterprises. Follow Rod on Twitter here.
  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    I know exactly what you mean, Mike. It's like, when you don't put Him first, you close YOUR OWN doors! Man, oh man! Everything becomes stagnant and you start to stray off your path to destiny.I have found that since, I've re-focused on spending quality time with Him, ideas are starting to flow. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything and somehow, someway, time has been freed to focus on the things that are most important to me. He's amazing man . . . truly amazing.

  • http://twitter.com/Craig_Musik Craig Scott

    Man, awesome post Rod! Just great tips for ALL of us that go through trying to keep it all together.

  • http://twitter.com/krenee76 Kiesha

    Thank you I needed this reminder. You don't know just how timely this post is. Thanks!

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    Thanks, Craig, I appreciate it man. No one's perfect, and no one has all the answers, but when we stay flexible and let God do His thing – everything's possible!

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    I appreciate that, Kiesha. Just another confirmation that what I go through is never in vain (and not meant for me to keep bottled up inside).

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    Much appreciated, Trina. I LOVE everything that I get to share here so I'm not stopping anytime soon. New things going on in my life will only have me to focus more on getting good stuff to you.

  • http://www.personal-success-factors.com steveborgman

    Rod, great information! Not only is it important to tithe our money, but also our time and our energy. By doing this, we will receive what we need to get the most important things done. Reminds me of Bill Hybel's book, Too Busy Not To Pray. I haven't read it, but the title says it all.

  • jaythedesignguy

    Great post! Your blog came up as I'm doing research on this very topic. We need to constantly be IN PROXIMITY to God to be filled up by Him! Why? Because we leak. Thanks for your insight.

  • http://www.rodkirby.com Rod

    So, glad you found something you could use for your project, Jay. You're absolutely, right, staying in proximity to God is the only way we'll be able to find success, He really has everything we need to figure out this thing called life and everything in between. Thanks for your comment.

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