HOW TO: Reclaim Your Privacy Online

Published on June 28, 2010 by in Online Success

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HOW TO: Reclaim Your Privacy Online

How private is your data online?

Social media superstar, Chris Brogan was in my neighborhood last month, speaking on social media marketing for small businesses. I remembered him saying, ”Privacy is dead because of the internet” and that statement really hit me. It’s not hard to see privacy go down the drain, especially with the transparency that social media demands and Facebook’s privacy woes as of late.

I decided to put Chris’ statement to the test and did a spokeo search of my name (think of it as the white pages of the internet). The “people search engine” brought up a ton of information such as my race, age, address, and more. Give it a try, it’s an incredible amount of private information that is publicly available. Fortunately, you’re able to remove your listing from the site and it also refers you to a service called, Reputation Defender which has many packages to help you keep your online information safe.
Note: The privacy statement of spokeo says the service ”aggregates publicly available information from phone books, social networks, marketing surveys, real estate listings, business websites, and other public sources.”

Small business owners have a lot to loose to breaches in privacy online. Social networks that keep photos, contact data, and other information on their servers even when you’re not active can be dangerous if stumbled upon by outsiders. (Imagine your client finding old photos of you partying in a chicken suit on New Years Eve on Facebook. Get the picture?)

How Can You Combat Your Privacy Concerns?

Chris did mention a way to combat the privacy issue. He said to “Win by having as much volume & value as u can” (paraphrased). My only issue with “having as much volume & value as u can,” is that it only covers up what’s beneath the surface. Barack Obama may have been the most “socially aware” presidential candidate in history, but his volume and value didn’t hide the controversy around the authenticity of his birth certificate (Wikipedia article).

In order to effectively combat the privacy issues of social media, online networks, and the world wide web in general I believe you have to take a more direct approach and fight them head-on. Here are some tips on how to secure your data across the web. Remember, the only way you’re going to get 100% privacy is by not using the internet at all. But, these tips should help you clean-up your tracks, protect your current data, and prevent further misuse of it.

Use Fancy Email “Ninjary” (Forms, Plugins, and other Useful Tools)

Your email address is considered to be your first “point of contact” and shouldn’t be published online. Taking necessary action will keep your inbox clean of spam, unwanted solicitations, and scammers. Here are a few tips to help you keep your address safe and out of “wrong hands” (Said in my Allstate guy voice).

Googe Docs: Google’s document program makes it super easy to create your own contact forms (with customizable fields) and embed them on any blog or website.

First, sign-up with Google docs if you haven’t done so already.
Second, Hit the create new button, on the top left hand side, and select form.
Third, customize your form by adding text boxes, check boxes, grids, and more.
Once you’re done creating your masterpiece you can grab the embed code and make it a part of your website or blog. When someone fills the form out you’ll get an email alerting you of the message.

You can also use WordPress plugins such as;

Contact Form 7: This is one of the best contact form plugins for WordPress. It’s extremely customizable and even features multiple form creation!

Visitor Contact Forms: This plugin features a slick web 2.0 presentation of a web form. It also includes your Skype, Twitter, and other contact information in a convenient pop-up window.

Alternatives: Two other suggestions for masking your email address are to use a disposable email address or an email graphic. The disposable addresses are meant for collecting spam only and this website generates a unique graphic for your email address like this;  (data scraping programs and bots are less likely to steal your email in an image than by simply typing it anywhere on the web).

Tweak Your Social Network Security Settings

Facebook
A couple of weeks ago, Facebook introduce new and simpler controls for privacy. According to Facebook your privacy settings weren’t changed, just how you access them. Here are a few tips and suggestions on how to maximize the new settings;

If you’ve made any previous privacy changes they’ll carry over to the new privacy page as Custom settings. If you would like to tweak these in a granular style click the customize settings link towards the bottom left-side of the page.

The big news for the new settings include more control over applications, games, and how they share your information. Here’s how to fully protect yourself while using the site;

1. Click the Applications, Games, and Websites link at the bottom of the page.

2. Check out the What you’re using section first. This section displays every Facebook app, game, and website associated with your account. Click the remove link to delete applications from your account.

3. Move to the Info accessible through your friends link. This section shows you what information your friends’ apps can access through their profile (that’s right, an app your friend uses can access your information). I recommend you deselect everything to keep other apps from getting, using, or abusing your data.

4. The Instant Personalization setting gives you the option to let Facebook partner sites use your data to “personalize” their websites for you when you visit. I recommend you deselect this option to keep your information secure.

Note: For a more in-depth look at Facebook’s new privacy settings check out their comprehensive guide.

Linkedin

What kind of privacy issues could the business networking site have? According to many users, plenty. If you’re using the site for your business then continue to use your business contact information. If you’re looking for a job you may consider setting up a special email and contact number (Perhaps a Google Voice number?) for job inquiries.

Once you’re logged into your profile click on “settings” in the top right-hand corner.
You’ll see the typical settings for your profile, email notifications, groups, and more. I would suggest tweaking your personal information first.Next, head over to privacy settings.

The most notable settings to tweak are Linkedin’s authorized applications, partner advertising, Nytimes.com customization, profile views, and research survey settings. Tweak each to meet your privacy needs, save your settings, and you’re done!

Twitter

Your Twitter profile is stripped of the exessive profile information of most social networks. This gives everyone the opportunity to get down to the “social” part in social media. However, this is the internet we’re talking about and in that regard nothing is 100% private. With that said . . .

  • Be careful with what you share! Use common sense and don’t let people know when you’ll be away from home. Sure, it’s common sense, but you’ll be surprised how many people let their guard down and end up on sites like pleaserobme.com.
  • Don’t give out personal information unless it’s a DM (direct message) to someone you trust.
  • Uncheck the “Tweet Location” box in your account settings if you don’t want people to know where you are. Note: If you decide to keep this option you can delete all your location information as seen in the graphic to the left.
  • Check the “Protect My Tweets” box if you only want approved people to follow your tweets. Note: Entrepreneurs, small businesses, and brands are discouraged from exericising this option as it takes your tweets out of the public stream where potential customers are. Just remember to keep what you share all business all the time and you’ll be fine.
Resource: Need some help maximizing Twitter for your business? Download my free e-book, The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Twitter Success

Secure Your Blog and Domain Name

Your blog is your brand’s home-base and you’re in a war for your privacy. In this digital battle your base can be attacked, hacked, and mined for private    information. Follow these steps and ensure you’re ready for whatever the internet can throw at you.

1. Pick a strong username and password for admin access to your blog.
2. Install the WP Security Scan plugin for WordPress and use it’s suggestions for securing your blog.
3. Keep regular back-ups of your blog’s database by using the WP-DB-Backup plugin.
4. Private register future domain names and ask your hosting provider to replace your info with theirs for current domains.
Tip: Want to see what info is available for your domain’s listing? Type your domain name into the whois database and see!
Note: Want some advanced practices for securing your WordPress blog? Check out this article from Problog Design; 11 Best Ways to Improve WordPress Security.

Manage Your Data Across the Web from the Big 3

Remember, the world wide web really is a wide web. The more we use Google’s, Microsoft’s, and Yahoo’s services the bigger our web gets. Here are some quick instructions for taking control of the web of information you weave.

Google Dashboard – Google’s dashboard, which launched in early November 2009, gives you a snapshot of the most popular google services you use.

  • The dashboard really is an eye-opener to how entrenched in Google services we really are.
  • Use it to manage privacy settings for Youtube, Docs, Gmail, Buzz, and more.
  • Be sure to edit your Google profile and remove any personal information that you don’t want to be there.
  • Did you know you can delete your entire web history and stop Google from recording it? Here’s how;1. Go to Web History
    2. Click on Remove Items or Clear Web History
    3. Click Clear Entire Web History
    4. And you’re done!

    Note:
    This option will also pause the recording of your history as well. Click the resume button to start it again at anytime.
Yahoo Account Settings – Not as extensive as the Google Dashboard, Yahoo’s account information page lets you tweak the usual settings. I suggest checking the apps and web connections link to make sure you don’t have any rogue apps using your information.
Microsoft Product Privacy Settings – Microsoft’s privacy page sadly only includes links to its many products and services. It would be nice if they created a “one-stop” privacy management center, but the scope and depth of their online services are vast. The good news is you can get connected to just about any Microsoft service you use online from this page.

My Quick Tips

  • Delete old email accounts (If you’re going to keep that Hotmail account as a junk email then adjust your contact data instead).
  • Delete your old job hunting website accounts (unless you’re still looking for a job). These sites hold some of your most valuable information in the form of resumes.
  • Delete old social networking accounts (you STILL have a Myspace account? Really?).
  • Use your business email address and contact information to protect your personal data online.
  • If you’re a “work from home” entrepreneur, rent a Post Office Box and use that instead of your home address.
  • Choose strong passwords for all your web accounts (preferably a mixture of numbers and letters with lowercase and uppercase characters).
  • Data-Mine yourself and see what Google has on you! I did and found my friendster account from my college days. Talk about embarrassed!
  • Don’t sign-up for EVERY social network. Maintain around 3-5 that you know you can manage.
Social media usage is growing at an alarming rate and with it people are sharing information, data, and other things just as much. My aim with this article is not to discourage you from participating in social media as an entrepreneur. But, remind you that what you share is stored, recorded, and saved by the world wide world. Take the reigns of your digital footprint. You may not be able to totally erase it out of the digital sandbox, but at least you can keep others from following, misusing, and abusing it. What else would you add to this guide? What privacy concerns do you have? Share your thoughts, questions, and comments below.

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Rod Kirby helps entrepreneurs, small business owners, and organizations take advantage of social media marketing and new media through his company, Kirby Enterprises. Follow Rod on Twitter here.

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20 Principles to Presenting with Poise: A Primer


Presenting with Poise

Want to Present with Poise?

Speaking engagements are great marketing opportunities. To be a successful business person, you have to be able to clearly and effectively communicate about your offerings to potential clients, investors, and partners. One way to generate buzz for your business is to create and give presentations that highlight various aspects of your business. These presentations can help you seal opportunities for more sales in strategic areas.

I had the chance to see Ed Tate, the 2000 World Champion of Public Speaking, present at a Toastmasters conference recently. He said that public speaking is the only form of marketing where you can build an emotional bond with your potential clients. Are you ready and willing to give a speech about what you do and the services you provide?

Preparation and practice are the keys to a poised presentation, but there is much more to giving a speech than just presenting your information. To showcase yourself and your business in the best light, follow these 20 principles to prepare a powerful, polished presentation with poise and purpose.

Purposeful Preparation

“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15, NIV)

1. Audience Analysis

DON’T: Give a canned speech without modifications.

DO: Consult the meeting planner/event coordinator to discuss your topic and tailor your presentation to a specific audience. You should consult with her well ahead of time to find out the audience’s needs, problems and concerns instead of just looking at things you can sell to them. Think of it as part of your ministry of service. If a group goes to a park for ministry to the homeless, they are likely to feed them and distribute supplies before talking to them about God, praying with, and reading Scriptures to them. Likewise, you have to meet people where they are, and speak to them on their level before you attempt to discuss any offerings. Once you build a rapport in this way, without a sales pitch, they will be more open to learning about your product or service.

A pre-event questionnaire is a great tool to gather information if you’re speaking to a company or organization. You can give the meeting planner the questionnaire to fill out well in advance. The details you learn from her answers will help you customize a speech, and build trust and credibility with your audience—the emotional bond that Ed Tate mentioned. Review their website, annual reports, newsletters, press releases, and brochures. Then check with the meeting planner to ensure that your stories and ideas are relevant to your points and not offensive. When in doubt, leave it out.

2. Figure Out Where You Fit

DON’T: Prepare your speech in a vacuum.

DO: Find out and consider the logistics of the event where you will be speaking. What is the specific purpose of the gathering? Will you speak from a raised platform, or be at the same level as your audience? How much time do you have to get your message across?

3. Start With a Bang

DON’T: Open your speech with something dull such as, “Hello everyone. Today I’m here to talk to you about…,” a long-winded thanks to numerous people, or an irrelevant story about what happened to you on the way there.

DO: Get your audience’s attention right out of the gate. Use a question, anecdote, startling statistic, paradox, or controversial opinion to draw in your audience and capture their attention. You want them to forget whatever is on their mind and focus on your message. You can also include an icebreaker to loosen up the audience and get them curious about what you will present.

4. Mix It Up

DON’T: Read to your audience or stick to one monotonous format.

DO: Use different elements such as humor, facts, quotes, and anecdotes. You can also engage your audience by:

· Telling stories. You can use a case study, a personal testimony that conveys how your business helped solve a problem or make someone’s life easier.  When you tell stories that involve more than one person you can make the scenes come alive by:

- Using dialogue (don’t speak in third person, speak as if you are each character)

- Using body language and gestures (make faces and relive the story)

- Varying your voice, tone, and pitch (don’t be like the teacher in The Wonder Years)

· Taking an audience survey by show of hands or applause, or use a white board, easel, or overhead transparency to write their responses.

· Doing a partner/small group exercise.

· Doing a skit using one or more audience members.

· Encouraging them to finish some of your sentences or repeat a phrase you use throughout.

· Use props. For example, you could toss an object around the room, and whoever catches it has to answer a question (and possibly gets a prize).

5. Beware of Information Overload

DON’T: Cram too much information into your presentation.

DO: Leave them wanting more. Consider your allotted time purpose when you design the breadth and depth of your speech. Is it a high-level presentation or an in-depth seminar? Do you have 15 minutes or an hour? Craig Valentine, 1999 World Champion of Public Speaking, advises that you discuss no more than one main point for every 10 minutes of your speech. This is one of the rules I’m guilty of breaking. Take it from me—your audience will get frustrated if you try to pack in too much information in the time allowed, or skip over information because you’re running out of time.

If you want extra “insurance,” you can have color-code your speech or mark your notes in a certain way so you know which elements to add or delete as you go along, to fill the needs of your speech. If you find that your time gets cut short, you’ll know which key points to make, and if you gain time, you know you’ve got relevant stories and exercises available to fill it up.

6. PowerPoint is Not a Crutch

DON’T: Read your PowerPoint slides or cram them with too many words.

DO: Create only as many slides as you need to make your points, or scrap the slides altogether. Choose a prop or other visual aids.

7. Leave Them With Something To Remember You By

DON’T: Conclude your speech with a question and answer period.

DO: Prepare an actual closing to your presentation. You want to make a powerful, lasting impact on your listeners, since they won’t remember most of your speech. You can have Q&A, just don’t make it THE ending. Instead use a story to drive home your core message, or just a summary that brings your points together. You could also choose to end with:

· Advice

· An anecdote

· A call to action (signing up for email updates, inviting people to make a donation, visiting your website, buying your product, or supporting a cause)—just don’t make it a pitch

· Asking volunteers to tell what they learned and how they will apply it in their life, or to voice their objections or concerns about carrying out the advice presented.

8. Practice!

DON’T: Skimp on rehearsals.

DO: Rehearse several times, even if you have given the speech before. If this audience has not heard you speak about this topic, and you tailored it for them, you need to incorporate your “tweaks”. Record yourself and/or speak in front of someone if you can so you can check your performance.

Beware of filler words, such as “um”s and “uh”s, which may come about if you don’t practice your transitions and pauses during rehearsal. Pauses allow you time to think about what you will say next, and they give the audience time to think about the last thing they heard, which provides emphasis to it.

9. Oration is Not Necessary

DON’T: Push yourself to memorize your entire talk.

DO: Familiarize yourself with the speech enough that you don’t have to rely heavily on notes (although it’s a good idea to have them close by in case you lose your place). Rehearsing and practice will help you memorize most of your talk, but you can still flow naturally and not feel pressure to remember your speech word-for-word.

10. Consider Evaluations

DON’T: Underestimate the importance of feedback.

DO: Create speech evaluations that people can fill out anonymously to gauge your effectiveness and make improvements for your next presentation.

Poised and Polished Presentation

“You are the light of the world… In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14a; 16 (NIV)

11. Let Your Light Shine

DON’T: Wear clothing or flashy jewelry that detracts from your presentation, however nice it may look on you. Image and first impressions are important.  Clothes that are wrinkled, too big, or too tight are not right. You don’t need to create any distracting visual barriers for the audience to overcome. And ladies—if you would find it questionable on another woman, then don’t wear it yourself. Modesty is never offensive. You are representing yourself, your business, and Christ.

DO: Dress for success. When you look good, you feel good, and your confidence will help you shine.

12. Stay Alert to Logistical Changes

DON’T: Assume that all your technical requirements will be good to go when you arrive.

DO: Arrive early and bring your own equipment. Stuff happens. Even if you requested specific equipment to be set up for you, arrive with ample time to set up if you are using PowerPoint slides, handouts, or other props, just in case “Murphy” shows up. Chairs may be set up differently than you’d like, or you may have to move to a different room. If logistics change, be flexible, and make do the best you can and work with what you’ve got.

13. Relax

DON’T: Be too serious.

DO: Smile. Regardless of the topic, there will be a time to smile.  Show your personality. If you’re nervous, everyone doesn’t have to know. Sometimes you have to fake it ‘til you make it, and besides, smiling is contagious. Let your light shine!

14. Pace Yourself

DON’T: Talk too fast.

DO: Take your time as you speak. It’s easy to talk too fast if you’re excited about your material or nervous, but try to keep a poised and relaxed or energetic composure—depending on what your topic calls for. If you’re concerned about time, keep a timepiece on the lectern or have someone signal you.

15. Keep Your Composure

DON’T: Get off track or get discouraged if something goes wrong during the presentation.

DO: Recover gracefully (or make a tactful joke) and keep it moving. It’s OK if you mess up or lose your place. The audience is on your side—they really want to see you succeed! They’re giving you their time and attention, hoping to get some important insight and information in return. Don’t let them down!

Powerful Presence

“Let all things be done decently and in order.” (1 Corinthians 14:40)

16. Move Around

DON’T: Stay in one spot or favor one side of the stage for the entire presentation, pace, or turn your back to the audience.

DO: Move naturally from time to time, with purpose, but not from nervousness or an abundance of energy.

17. A “Know-It-All”? Not!

DON’T: “Talk down” to your audience or position yourself as a person who has “made it” without any struggles.

DO: Demonstrate your expertise in a way that engages the audience and answers the question, “What’s in it for me?” Be relatable and show your commonalities. Why do you believe in your product or service? How has it helped others?

18. Take Charge

DON’T: Ignore a heckler or disruptive audience member, or respond with a rude or coarse remark.

DO: Stay in control of the room. Once you start your presentation, you are in charge. Ignoring disruptive audience members is not usually the best way to handle them. Address them tastefully without embarrassing anyone. People will respect you for taking control, and for your calm, cool attitude.

19. Hang Out for a While

DON’T: Do not make a long or pressured sales pitch. Once you turn off the audience, they’ll shut down and there’s no coming back.

DO: Remain accessible and approachable after your speech. Let people know a little about your business and how they can reach you. Give them just enough information to leave them wanting more. You can negotiate with the meeting planner to offer a service such as coaching sessions or back of the room sales for your products after your presentation has concluded. If you educate the audience and provide them with value, you can convince them why they need your services and convert some of them into paying clients.

20. Keep At It

DON’T: Let too much time elapse between speaking engagements.

DO: Continually seek out places to gain more exposure for your business. Get in where you fit in by checking out your local Chamber of Commerce meetings, Rotary clubs, Kiwanis clubs, and other associations and nonprofit groups related to your target audience.

Find Your Rhythm and Put Yourself Out There

As you can see, much of the work that goes into presenting with poise is due to preparation. You have to find a rhythm when presenting information and it helps to start preparing BEFORE you see an opportunity to speak. Experts in their fields are often asked to speak at conferences and special events, but it’s better still to create your own presentations and opportunities as you network.

If you want to get more comfortable with public speaking on a regular basis and build confidence, join a Toastmasters club near you. It’s the most economical professional organization I’ve ever belonged to for the value I’ve received (it’s about $30 for a six-month membership at my club).

Who needs your products and services? I encourage you to share your expertise with them because no one can tell them about it better than you. The more you often speak, the better you will become, and the more personal success and business growth you can realize.

About the Author

Daree Allen

Daree Allen

Daree Allen is a technical writer, freelancer, and motivational speaker. She is currently writing a self-help book for teen girls.  You can reach her at her website, “D.elivering A. R.ich, E.mpowering E.xperience” at http://DareeAllen.com, and her personal development blog, “Daree’s Insights” at http://dareesinsights.wordpress.com.

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