This is a guest post by Tai Goodwin of taigoodwin.com;
Social networking sites have dramatically influenced how we connect with the world. People are connecting and forming virtual friendships that can sometimes be closer and more personal than those we meet face to face. Some use the social networking sites to stay in touch with friends and family, while others use them to network with business contacts.
Successful business partnerships have been created and prospered with partners in separate countries or even continents working together – All done without either party ever meeting face-to-face. The internet and social networking have given new life to home-based businesses by leveling the playing field.
While all this newfound friendship and business alliances is positive and rapidly becoming a social force to reckon with, it does have its dangerous, dark side that can sink many businesses and their owners. What is easy to forget is that your online credibility, both personally and professionally, can be affected by anything you post or publish online. Even foolish pranks have the ability to chase potential customers and joint ventures away from you.
Anything that gets published or posted on a social networking site is publicly available and almost impossible to remove later. Some Internet marketers create two separate accounts on the social sites, thinking that they can keep their business reputation separate from the social hijinks often found on the strictly social sites. That just makes both of your personalities available for public scrutiny.
Potential business partners you might be considering approaching for a joint venture or to get them to promote you and your products will not even think about it if you’ve left a trail of vulgarity or bad errors in judgment behind you. Even if someone else is acting like a jerk, don’t respond. It takes two to keep an argument going. If you just have to respond, keep it polite and drop it.
Blogs have become the internet darlings for product promotion, growing lists and speaking your mind. They also can create a professional, public profile that will hurt you later. Keep your business blogs focused on specifically selected content that will promote your business. If you share links, make sure that the link does not lead to anything negative or pornographic. Check it out before trading links!
Never forget that you are essentially dealing with strangers online, even if you have corresponded on forums or with frequent emails. When you do link to another business or personal blog, check them out frequently to protect your reputation. Blogs change their focus all the time, often at the whim of the blogger.
Once anything gets online about you or is written by you, Google will eventually find it, and all of it will become a matter of public record that will still exist years later. To avoid problems, keep anything you write online, or for publication online, strictly professional, including your screen names. And don’t share photos that could embarrass you professionally – even if you don’t post them yourself – an acquaintance without the same safeguards could inadvertently put you in an awkward situation.
Remember the Golden Rule: Never write anything you wouldn’t write to your grandmother. Rest assured that she will be checking up on you – she probably has her own blog anyway.
Editor’s Notes; At the end of the day, when it comes to being successful online, all you have is your credibility and the trust others have placed in you. Playing on the dark side of the social networking fence puts both of those assets at risk. Here are a few other tips that should keep you on the straight and narrow;
- It’s ok to use Facebook personally (as long as you keep to Tai’s tips above), but for business use, start a Facebook page.
- If you want to show a different side of your personality than what’s on display (professionally) throughout the net, start a tumblr blog. They’re easy to start, maintain, and you can let it be known that its personal. Here’s mine for an example.
- If you need to send personal messages to people on any social networking site, send a private message instead of public.
- Unless it’s a part of your brand (and you can talk about it intelligently) stay away from discussions about religion, politics, or relationships. It’s an easy way to slip into the dark side…
- For more help, check out my entrepreneur’s guide on awesome social media etiquette.
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